Poly-Affirming Care

As with any intimate bond, navigating consensual non-monogamy can bring rich rewards and a unique set of challenges. Our therapists are committed to supporting you through the struggle and joy of clarifying your relational values so you can build the structure of intimacy you want most. We will bring understanding and empathy to places in your relationship that may feel stuck or painful and support you in developing creative solutions to any concerns you may have. Whether you have been non-monogamous for decades or are just beginning to explore the terrain, we will honor the way you want to express love, and help you develop strategies for resolving unmet needs, communicating boundaries, sitting with discomfort, and maximizing the choices you have in and beyond your existing relationship.

Negotiating Polyamory

Some couples have decided they want to welcome more people into their relationship while maintaining a commitment to one another. This is becoming more and more common, but is not easy to navigate. Often, the idea of an open relationship is semantically misleading, as one partner is thinking one thing and the other is thinking something altogether different. This can be explored in therapy by delving deeply into the desires, fantasies, and needs of each partner. In navigating polyamory in the context of a loving relationship, the couple finds they learn more of the inner workings of their partner and their intimacy grows tremendously. Whatever decision the couple comes to at the end of treatment, their relationship is the better for it. We are kink and poly friendly at PCT, and hope you feel comfortable coming to us to better understand the direction your relationship wants to take, in and out of the bedroom.