Grief and Heartbreak support
Losing a partner at any point in the relationship can be a traumatizing experience. This is because we begin our lives being attached to our parents, who hopefully provide a semblance of love and security that make us feel like the world is a caring and safe place. Some children don’t receive this kind of nurturing, but they might believe they can find it in their significant other. This is not pie-in-the-sky thinking; our romantic partnerships are actually continuations of the attachment we felt as children to our parents. Even near the beginning of the relationship we look to our partners to fulfill many of the roles a parent might fulfill, and this is appropriate. Ideally, our partners show us love in a way we feel cared for, they support us when the chips are down, and they are a space of safety we can call home.
From the beginning of the relationship we all have a small sliver of hope that we might find a safe space in our partner. This is why even early relationship loss feels so devastating and sometimes like the end of the world. This is an experience no one should weather alone, and being in therapy gives you a space to visit and revisit elements of the relationship you might not have understood, cry as much as you need to cry, and feel seen and heard in a way you need to heal.
You might have had a broken engagement, been ghosted by someone you’ve been dating, or had your 20 year-long marriage dissolve. You can get through this, but don’t do it alone.
PCT clinicians who specialize in this area
Other PCT Specialties
- ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder)
- Affair Recovery
- Alcohol/other substance use concerns
- Blended Families
- Body Image Concerns
- Communication
- Couples Weekend/Week-long Intensives
- Dating couples
- Discerning Whether to Leave a Relationship
- Family Therapy
- Friendship Therapy
- Identity Exploration
- Infertility/miscarriage support
- Inter-racial Couples
- Intimacy After Sexual Trauma
- LGBTQIA+
- Men & Masculinities
- Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
- Negotiating Family Expansion/Decisions to Have Children
- Negotiating Low or Mismatched Sexual Desire
- Negotiating Polyamory
- Parenting and Co-Parenting Support
- Poly-Affirming Care
- Postpartum Relationship Navigation
- Premarital Counseling
- Seeking love and intimacy
- Separation and Divorce Mediation
- Serious or Chronic Illness
- Sex, Gender, and Sexuality
- Sex therapy
- Trans-Affirming Care
- Trauma/PTSD